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The Silk Purse Conspiracy

The Silk Purse Conspiracy
Posted By: Ivan Butcher II on September 23, 2012

Addressing the issue of Prostate Cancer

Before I begin let me share an African fable:

[Once upon a time, in the beginning women once ruled the world. Now, the men really didn't like the way women were handling things. So, the men met secretly and talked on how would they be able to take the power from the women.
Their plan was to impregnate all of the women at the same time.
Now their plan worked, because men have been in power ever since.]

Here is where my theory kicks-in, Women have never ever been happy with this arrangement. Because the men waited until when the women were most defenseless, since this was their means by which the men took advantage of them. Women today, understanding the power of their Silk Purse have learned to take full advantage of being in control of It.

(By now, you have to realize that the Silk Purse is in reference to...)

Are women today knowingly denying, and rationing access to the Silk Purse to control the men for what they did or do?

Could the plot be more sinister and that the women are slow killing off the men at their golden years?

How do I support this theory?

For one, why are men dying in greater numbers more so than the women?

If the man is generally in good health, his biggest threat is prostate cancer. There are many studies supporting that the lack of frequent orgasms for men are the major contributor.

[But the big kahuna of longevity studies was completed just 10 years ago in Wales. British scientists interviewed nearly 1,000 men in six small villages about their sexual frequency, then arranged for all death records to be forwarded so the scientists could record their life spans. Ten years later they determined that men who had two or more orgasms a week had died at a rate half that of the men who had orgasms less than once a month. “Sexual activity seems to have a protective effect on men’s health,” the researchers concluded.]

Growing up I was raised by women and I heard, listened and learned that most women as they age are not interested in someone trying to abuse their Purse, especially when it is not so Silky any more.

Talking to middle age women, with a man who is very sexual, and they will tell you, he better go relieve himself.

[Interestingly, most orgasm studies blur the line between sex and masturbation, referencing both as “sexual expression.” Dr. Roizen believes masturbation is, at the very least, “A good supplement to monogamous sex,” and prostate cancer rates have been proven to directly correlate to frequency of ejaculation. Scientists say ejaculating at least four times a week can reduce one’s risk by up to 30 percent.]

This is the very attitude that drives a lot of men to seek gratification else where.


Women in long term relationships are often responsible for most good men being distracted, mainly because those women realizing what it really takes to satisfy a health man's sexual appetite, they are either no longer able or interested. 

"The One-Minute Man" handle that women have for those men with EDS, in some cases are caused by a lack of access to the Silk Purse. The penis is a muscle that when not used often enough will suffer with atrophy.

These same women knowing that their own sexual needs and maybe their health has changed, will rage if their men relieves themselves with another woman. With the ratio of women 10 to 1,  these same women may even have a close friend or even a relative that is all alone, they would rather let their Men risk prostate cancer or run the streets, rather than be willing to share with someone close to them.

Considering the possibility that the penis really does have a mind of its own, for the sake of illustration, than this can explain why some men controlled my their primeval instincts search-out the Silk Purse where ever the can find a willing female.

[ Your Penis Does Have a Mind of Its Own
Drogo Montague, MD, a urologist at the Cleveland Clinic

You've probably noticed that your penis often does its own thing. You may remember times when it was completely inappropriate to have an erection; and yet you couldn't wish it away...]

There are statistics that support the fact there is a ratio of 10 women to every available man. Now the saying is," A bird in hand is better than two birds in the bush," now those odds aren't so great when a man may consider the odds of 9 to the 1 in hand, a lot of men are going with the greater odds with the expectation of bagging at least 3 or 4.

Why should a single lonely woman worry how you feel, especially if your man is making himself available?

Personally I cannot understand a One Night-ter .  

One Night, too scary, especially with all of the consequences of Today! 

My 3-D rule has kept me in check, No Diseases No Diapers and No Drama

I don't want to even catch a cold from someone, I can't imagine a little person calling me Daddy at this time in my life and at this age, I feel peace of mind is much better than a new piece of Purse.

So basically I am saying, women of the past of different cultures when men were at a storage they shared.

 So, what it means and has meant, he who had enough wealth could have as many Silk Purses that he wanted or could afford.  

Especially when there are so many other women willing to share their Purse for Profit or Love or Lust.

Today every man realizes that in order to have access to the Silk Purse, they would have to be able to provide for all of the woman's needs and oftentimes their wants.

Now men, especially with this new knowledge, will either pay for it, lie, cheat or compromise to have access to The Almighty Silk Purse.

Women with this knowledge, how much concern do you really have for the man's health your father, brother, son, cousin, uncle, grandfather, etc.?

Ivan

I realize the backlash:

I a Lowly man has the audacity to make light of the fact that a great number of mature women are drier and maybe washed-up and not capable of having a health sexual relationship with a healthy man's sexual desires or needs. 
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Ivan Butcher II
Business Proprietor at The Butcher Shop of the Virgin Islands
As an artist, I have been successful in opening up the dialogue. As a teacher, I have supported my statements with facts in my own creative way.

Yes, men have to step up their behavior and appearance when it comes to keeping that appeal.

I have had a very mature, health conscience, attractive woman tell me that when some of these men, "One Big Mac away from a heart attack," approach her, she ask them, "If I looked like You, would You have approached Me."

I can guarantee that those who read into the message in my analogy will never look at theirs or others partners in the same manner.

Ivan
Sunday, September 30th 2012 at 6:38PM
DAVID JOHNSON
BROTHER KNOWLEDGE at THE BOOKS
GOOD READ BRO ,,,,,,SOMETHING I DIDN'T KNOW most orgasm studies blur the line between s*x and masturbation, referencing both as “s*xual expression.” Dr. Roizen believes masturbation is, at the very least, “A good supplement to monogamous s*x,” and prostate cancer rates have been proven to directly correlate to frequency of ejaculation. Scientists say ejaculating at least four times a week can reduce one’s risk by up to 30 percent.]

MY GIRL just got a lil more s*xy...
Thursday, November 1st 2012 at 5:08PM
Ivan Butcher II
Business Proprietor at The Butcher Shop of the Virgin Islands
Johnson,

In my youth, trying to play the super-stud, I strained my prostate causing a very painful infection.

Too much of a good thing can have its drawbacks.

But then again there are no studies proving that a little bit extra ever hurt anyone, well I guess maybe someone caught Tipping : )

Butcher
Thursday, November 1st 2012 at 5:55PM
Ivan Butcher II
Business Proprietor at The Butcher Shop of the Virgin Islands
My mentality?

Adam and Eve Revised

http://hbcuconnect.com/cgi-bin/blog.cgi?bl...
Thursday, November 1st 2012 at 7:28PM
DAVID JOHNSON
BROTHER KNOWLEDGE at THE BOOKS
@ CARMELL some brother are the one minute man because they dont know how to please a woman or treat a sister ,im glad I got all my running out / playing the field ,as a young man I dont want to be old and lonely thats why I had to find a woman that wanted just as much out of life as i do and wasn't tied down with fear of another woman or her man cheating on her, a woman who could pray with a brother and lay with him to ,,,not as my slave but as my equal and sometimes taking the lead fighting for a future for our family strong black woman whom I love and respect to the fullest ,im sure there are a lot of good sisters but the brothers got to come correct get out them streets and do the damn thing right instead of trying to get all the girls just get one good one !

Thursday, November 1st 2012 at 8:13PM
Ivan Butcher II
Business Proprietor at The Butcher Shop of the Virgin Islands
@ Johnson, I have done what you have come to realize and I live with and have been married to the same woman for 43 years.
Thursday, November 1st 2012 at 8:28PM
DAVID JOHNSON
BROTHER KNOWLEDGE at THE BOOKS
bro ,IVAN .. before you can cure the ills of our people, you have to first heal the relationships between Black men and Black women. There must be a healing to take place in order for a resurrection of black family values yes im with you on that I feel the black man got to find himself ,,brothers are looking in all the wrong places for himself , I believe it in the history books is where a black man can truly find himself learning ones history can really be a motivating factor for his future.......tbc


Thursday, November 1st 2012 at 8:43PM
DAVID JOHNSON
BROTHER KNOWLEDGE at THE BOOKS
43 years I solute you brother ! may you have 100 more !
Thursday, November 1st 2012 at 8:45PM
Ivan Butcher II
Business Proprietor at The Butcher Shop of the Virgin Islands
Greetings Charmell,

Like you, my message was to do exact what it was intended to do, and any reasonable person should understand that. The fact still remains that men are dying from a preventive or I should say a controllable disease that is connected to how often he ejaculates.

However manner individuals, or a couple wants to deal with it is up to them, I am just interpreting A Message.

My Adam and Eve revised addresses the issues we face as people because of relationships.

Ps: My wife is a Lee from Eastern Shores, Md.
Thursday, November 1st 2012 at 10:24PM
Wanda Legette
Dump Truck Driver at Unemployed
Mr. Butcher, It was an interesting piece, but I have witnessed a few people that have experienced those issues, and I must say. It is sad that one small body part can dethrone a man. we women take the Timex test. We take the licking and keep it moving. I noticed that men seem to digress, and literally have heart attacks from this type of thing. women menopause, and some do it well, while others cannot get a grip on the matter, yet they still manage to take care of the other's feelings in their time of need and discomfort. I am not an expert on that subject, but again, I watched a few men go through this, and it is to me the most pitiful sight I have ever seen. I have literally looked on in sure amazement, because somehow they have wrapped their whole self-awareness and self-worth around one body part. Usually, I am not a voice on this matter, but since it is happening at an alarming rate, might I share a little conditioner to this strange issue. When we get these parts we must treat them much like our very prize possession. Jewels if you will. They are not to be used for test driving, but for procreation and for an institutional relationship of true meaning. Communication and a box of toys, I think is the solutions to some peoples problems. I would hate to throw away my whole person, because of one piece that have malfunctioned. I have learned to accept the things I cannot change, and and thank God for the wisdom to know the difference.
Communication is a wonderful key to most problems. Love is the key to a affectionate relationship. We must study love carefully, because it has more than one meaning. We must act on Love when one within the relationship is broken. You don't drive your car until it falls apart, so get a checkup pre-advanced, and stop blaming the women for you body organs. They belong to you. As good stewards you are responsible for you and your own organs.
I will leave you with the Adam and Eve Theory. God made the woman, because he did not want the man to be alone. He said it is not good. He made the man to till the grounds. Then he made woman. He told them not to eat of the tree of knowledge, and since he made man first, he gave him and command. The cause of the fall was not because of the woman, but because the man failed to communicate the importance of obeying the word that God gave him. Remember, he was sitting beside her when this event took place. God found them both in their nakedness, he punished the woman, and gave her pain to bare. When he gave the woman to man Adam named her Wo man, because he she was breathe taking. The Key her is He commanded the man to be in charge of subduing everything. He commanded two people, and they both had CEO authority. The man, he made to til the earth, and the woman he made to be the Executive Administrator of the daily affairs. So, Eve used her authority, but Adam failed to plan, and use his mission statements and goals to inform Eve of the pre-requist of how to help him. It is the same way today. We have to take care of what we are given, and use it in the right places, with the right people, for the right purposes. I enjoyed your research. I hope you can view this with acumen. Happy New Year.
Saturday, December 29th 2012 at 9:05PM
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