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Why do Guys LIE about What they Want in a Relationship?? Posted on 07-29-2008
sabrinaashields17

Okay, So I have a question when a Guy meets the WOMEN That could possibly be the "ONE" they spend time together,Love everything about each other, met each others parents ect... Why do They LIE about what they want From the Person??? I know Alot of guys whem they hang out they talk just as much as women do about THEM but when marriage and other topics are at hand they'er like OOO NOOO I will never get Married but then they'll put on a Front and tell U(Ladies) Yeah I wanna Get Married and Kids and all that other Stuff!!! Then when we call them there Guys are Like SHE got U on a Leash and all that other B** Ish!! LOLZ
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07-29-2008 02:15PM [Reply]
sabrinaashields17

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xosugababeox@yahoo.com wrote:
i think they just dont know what they want sometimes their actions tell you exactly what they want out the relationship but we may only pay attention to their words. For instance a guy tells you he plans to marry you and he loves but he always cheats on and only calls you when he wants sex.
I AM WITH U ON THAT 1 BCuz Half the Gurls THat go to my school are Now Having KIDS Bcuz thats what there Dude Told Them!! Why they would want mess up their Lives Like that IDK??? Then on top of that The Guys are Not Cute and Have No GOALS Thats why Im Not dating at my School!!!

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07-29-2008 02:18PM [Reply]
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xosugababeox@yahoo.com wrote:
lol....she a gangsta girl i swear
Lol. Naah.

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07-29-2008 02:18PM [Reply]
cutie4life
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sabrinaashields17 wrote:
I AM WITH U ON THAT 1 BCuz Half the Gurls THat go to my school are Now Having KIDS Bcuz thats what there Dude Told Them!! Why they would want mess up their Lives Like that IDK??? Then on top of that The Guys are Not Cute and Have No GOALS Thats why Im Not dating at my School!!!
I wish a dude would tell me..when to have kids..he would get knocked upside his head..and I be damned if I dated a dude with no goals..I mean come on now..a guy with no goals..what is he going to do for me..lol..

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07-29-2008 02:24PM [Reply]

TSUblueTiger
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sabrinaashields17 wrote:
Okay, So I have a question when a Guy meets the WOMEN That could possibly be the "ONE" they spend time together,Love everything about each other, met each others parents ect... Why do They LIE about what they want From the Person??? I know Alot of guys whem they hang out they talk just as much as women do about THEM but when marriage and other topics are at hand they'er like OOO NOOO I will never get Married but then they'll put on a Front and tell U(Ladies) Yeah I wanna Get Married and Kids and all that other Stuff!!! Then when we call them there Guys are Like SHE got U on a Leash and all that other B** Ish!! LOLZ
I am not sure why we are sometimes not honest. Don’t base your judgment on what you hear. Base your judgment on what you see. Therefore, if his actions align with his words, you should believe it. As far as the friends, don’t worry about them. If they are his friends, they will respect his lady. Just keep working to improve your relationship with your boyfriend. I am sure everything will be ok.

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07-29-2008 02:24PM [Reply]
sabrinaashields17

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EXaCLY, MAMI THERE JUST A BUCH OF CHICAS MUDO CON ningún CEREBRO!!! (DUMB GURLS WITH NO BRAIN!!!) LOLZ

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07-29-2008 02:29PM [Reply]
sabrinaashields17

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TSUblueTiger wrote:
I am not sure why we are sometimes not honest. Don’t base your judgment on what you hear. Base your judgment on what you see. Therefore, if his actions align with his words, you should believe it. As far as the friends, don’t worry about them. If they are his friends, they will respect his lady. Just keep working to improve your relationship with your boyfriend. I am sure everything will be ok.
YEAH Im NOT WOORRRIED ABout his Friends To say the least.. I JUST Call that BarberShop talk Thats All LOLZ

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07-30-2008 12:43PM [Reply]

keishaberry88
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cutie4life wrote:
I wish a dude would tell me..when to have kids..he would get knocked upside his head..and I be damned if I dated a dude with no goals..I mean come on now..a guy with no goals..what is he going to do for me..lol..
i definately agree with you on this one. i have a little one and no one forced me to have him. i chose to and i let my man know that if he wants to stay around he has to stay on his stuff or else i'm gone.
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07-30-2008 04:35PM [Reply]
sabrinaashields17

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Thanks to all who replyed to this

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07-30-2008 04:37PM [Reply]

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De nada

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07-30-2008 04:51PM [Reply]
sabrinaashields17

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Great Job!!

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