Dude, it's overrated......friends have told me this since 8th grade.
You go to the mirror and look at yourself...and your the same person you were before you fucked her...Having sex won't change you....and it's sad if you think that. Plus it's too many Risks...STDs...Pregnancy....Feelings running....f**k all that...I have too many dreams and ambitions to f**k myself up by getting some "cut".
I'd rather save it for the person I will spend the rest of my life with....