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When dudes try to dance with you at the club... Posted on 04-11-2006

R-Tistic
Los Angeles, CA
What are we supposed to do, in your opinion? I am just curious because I've heard a large variety of responses from different females. In general, most girls seem to just dance when you "jump" behind, and most of them usually look back to see who they are dancin with and they will continue depending on how you look (I would assume) or if they know you. However, I have heard some females complain about that technique, and they get mad when dudes do that. Some of em will say that they'd prefer the dude to ask her first. It's nothin serious at all...just somethin I have been wonderin about.
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04-11-2006 12:32PM [Reply]
Princess LaRonda
Statesboro, GA
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where i'm from you don't ask.....

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04-11-2006 04:16PM [Reply]
giniacuty_757
virginia, VA
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R-Tistic wrote:
What are we supposed to do, in your opinion? I am just curious because I've heard a large variety of responses from different females. In general, most girls seem to just dance when you "jump" behind, and most of them usually look back to see who they are dancin with and they will continue depending on how you look (I would assume) or if they know you. However, I have heard some females complain about that technique, and they get mad when dudes do that. Some of em will say that they'd prefer the dude to ask her first. It's nothin serious at all...just somethin I have been wonderin about.
it really dont matter to me as long as you know how to Dance and you not just standing there with ya dick to my booty gettin a free for all feel Im saying some of yall dont even dance yall just be all on the butt its cool but then it get annoying and then some of yal lhave yall boyz join itscool too but some of yall just dont know how to stop I know out hea they do as long as I see you can dress! you look HALF way decent its coo l t o dance but some of yall be aggressive like you dance one time and yall want to keep on dancing and dudes out hea cant take no!! for an answer they will question everything in the book as long as u DANCE you good in my opinion but that other stuff I talked about not even cool.

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04-11-2006 04:47PM [Reply]
UGAdawg10

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giniacuty_757 wrote:
it really dont matter to me as long as you know how to Dance and you not just standing there with ya dick to my booty gettin a free for all feel.
:lol: :lol: oh wow again lmao...you say some funny sh*t

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04-11-2006 05:09PM [Reply]
Miss_404

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truthfully, it depends on how a guy looks. me and my girls got a system. if a dude come up dancing behind us, and he ugly, we will either give her the "eye" meaning he's busted, or pull her away and start dancing with her. but if he cute, we give the nod of approval and all is good. and for the guys who just don't get it when u don't wanna dance with them anymore, just stop dancing, walk off, and leave them looking stupid.

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04-11-2006 05:54PM [Reply]
P Harrell

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I be peeping that out sometime too...When I go to the club I don't dance the first hour or so...I might drink and check my surroundings...You can tell what females want to dance or which females will be dissing dudes just by observing...Don't set yourself up for failure...and don't always go after the finest female living... My friends and I have thing called "The Big Chick" dance...lol...we dance with the big girls first...then we move on to everyone else...lol...it's crazy but it works...

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04-11-2006 07:50PM [Reply]

R-Tistic
Los Angeles, CA
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P Harrell wrote:
I be peeping that out sometime too...When I go to the club I don't dance the first hour or so...I might drink and check my surroundings...You can tell what females want to dance or which females will be dissing dudes just by observing...Don't set yourself up for failure...and don't always go after the finest female living... My friends and I have thing called "The Big Chick" dance...lol...we dance with the big girls first...then we move on to everyone else...lol...it's crazy but it works...
LMAO....one time me and my homeboys were at a club and it was a real big girl, and I told my homeboy to go dance wit her just to be funny. When he went up to her, she turned around and was like "NO!" and walked away! He barely ever gets that from regular girls, so he was really in shock. We know she was prolly doin it to up her confidence though.

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04-11-2006 09:20PM [Reply]

AggieWarrior
Charlotte, NC
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Princess LaRonda wrote:
where i'm from you don't ask.....
pretty much... i just do my thang... one thing i don't do is that if a chick is sweating from dancing so much, don't get up on her and grind some more, it will not work...
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04-11-2006 10:30PM [Reply]
Miss_404

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R-Tistic wrote:
P Harrell wrote:
I be peeping that out sometime too...When I go to the club I don't dance the first hour or so...I might drink and check my surroundings...You can tell what females want to dance or which females will be dissing dudes just by observing...Don't set yourself up for failure...and don't always go after the finest female living... My friends and I have thing called "The Big Chick" dance...lol...we dance with the big girls first...then we move on to everyone else...lol...it's crazy but it works...
LMAO....one time me and my homeboys were at a club and it was a real big girl, and I told my homeboy to go dance wit her just to be funny. When he went up to her, she turned around and was like "NO!" and walked away! He barely ever gets that from regular girls, so he was really in shock. We know she was prolly doin it to up her confidence though.
lol...she was probably doin it cause she didnt want yall makin a fool outta her ass, cause the first thing people do is point and laugh.

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04-11-2006 10:52PM [Reply]
'manda

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if he smacks my bootie i'll dance wit him for a bit
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